Faith of Our Fathers
by Harvey
& Kathy Corwin Marriage & Family Educators
Have you ever
thought about where your faith in God came from? Was it from your
mother, your father, grandma or grandpa, a teacher or pastor, or
maybe from your best friend? What person helped you see God?
First of all, what is faith? Let's read Hebrews 11: 1- 2, "The
fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith,
is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living.
Its our handle on what distinguished our ancestors, set them
above the crowd." The Message Bible
I (Kathy) remember that my faith was passed down
from my mother. When my Baptist mother was a teenager, she walked
many miles to an Adventist evangelistic meeting and there learned
about the Sabbath and became a Seventh-day Adventist. My mothers
personal faith in God was instilled in me as a small child. She
taught me about Jesus being my best friend, through both the good
and bad times. My mother trusted in God for the rest of her life
and even through her turbulent and untimely early death from cancer.
But most importantly my mother taught me about Jesus love through
her loving relationship to me. The way a parent treats their children
in a relationship is usually how the child will grow up seeing God
in a relationship. What a blessing to have a parent that will talk
about their faith in a non-threatening way that actually draws the
child to God!
My (Kathy) mother's faith was passed on to me
and to my sister. I can remember as a small child, praying with
my sister for our daddy to become a Christian. Thinking God would
hear us more clearly, we would go to the garage and sit in our daddy's
old antique car (his hobby was restoring antique cars) and pray
and cry for our daddy to become a Christian. We never stopped praying
for him and finally during our high school years our dad committed
his heart to God and changed his life style. My father came from
a home that pushed religion down their kids throat. So in
turn my dad had spent most of his life rebelling. But finally God
answered two little girls prayers for their daddy and he lived
the rest of his life faithful to Jesus. He died a few years ago
as a successful contented Christian man. He was successful because
he had a personal relationship with Jesus and with his family. It
was because of my mother's original faith that I gained my faith
and then that faith was passed on to my father.
A person never really knows the exact way that
God will answer their prayers but the point is that He will answer
them in His own time and way. We merely need to trust Him.
There was a story of a devoted Christian mother
who prayed earnestly that her son would become a minister. Her son
grew to be a dedicated Christian man but decided that he wasn't
called of God to be a minister and left his seminary training. Instead
he became a successful financier and banker. He died wealthy and
it might have seemed that his mother's prayers had never been answered.
But it was found in the son's will, that his large fortune had been
left to the endowment of what now is the Kentucky Theological Seminary.
Through this final wish of his life, it was made possible that not
one, but thousands had become ministers. The mother's prayer was
answered many times over.
This mother's faith in God was passed on to her
son and then in turn passed on to many others. We never know the
extent of our prayers for our family.
In a recent "Value Genesis Report,"
a study on the youth of our Adventist schools said that their parents
seldom talked about their faith in God. Perhaps the reason for this
is because their parents forced religion on them and they wanted
to be certain not to do the same to their children. The main point
of the report was that parents today rarely share their faith in
their everyday walk of life. In past generations, grandparents shared
their personal faith stories by living it as well as talking about
it.
The important fact is that parents need to talk
about what's happening in their daily lives in relation to their
faith in God. For instance when a family goes through a difficult
time and they pray about it, then they can reflect later how God
answered their prayers. The prayers could be about family finances,
health, career changes, moves from one town to another, choosing
the right friends, or even bigger problems like divorce or deaths
in the family. Family worship can be a place for parents to voice
their family concerns as well as their answered prayers. Families
need to talk together about how God is leading. Faith stories can
be taking place in the everyday life.
I (Harvey) remember asking my father where he
received his faith, thinking it might have been passed down from
his father. But my dad said that his faith had not come from his
father and preceded to tell the story of how he received his faith
from his grandfather, which was my great grandfather, the one I
was named after. My dad remembered that he had helped his grandfather
landscape homes that the Corwin family built and was introduced
to the Lord through both his grandfathers life style and story
telling. It wasnt long ago that I was able to tell my own
son about this story while the two of us were landscaping at his
new home. That faith was passed down through many generations. My
great grandfather didn't realize that he would make such a difference
for many upcoming generations. He was only sharing his faith with
one young boy, not thousands, but one. My great grandfather made
a difference in my life. It was at my ordination into the Gospel
Ministry that my parents told me that their prayer had been
answered when I became a minister.
One At A Time
By Jack Canfield & Mark Victor
Hansen
"A friend of ours was walking down a deserted Mexican
beach at sunset. As he walked along, he began to see another man
in the distance. As he grew nearer, he noticed that the local
native kept leaning down, picking something up and throwing it
out into the water. Time and again he kept hurling things out
into the ocean. As our friend approached even closer, he noticed
that the man was picking up starfish that had been washed up on
the beach and, one at a time, he was throwing them back into the
water. Our friend was puzzled. He approached the man and said,
"Good evening, friend. I was wondering what you are doing."
"Im throwing these starfish back into the ocean. You
see, its low tide right now and all these starfish have
been washed up onto the shore. If I dont throw them back
into the sea, theyll die up here from lack of oxygen."
"I understand," my friend replied, "but there must
be thousands of starfish on this beach. You cant possibly
get to all of them. There are simply too many. And dont
you realize this is probably happening on hundreds of beaches
all up and down this coast. Cant you see that you cant
possibly make a difference?" The local native smiled, bent
down and picked up yet another starfish, and as he threw it back
into the sea, he replied, "Made a difference to that one!"
Make a difference in someone's life today. Share
your faith in God through your own life stories. Children need to
see and hear about the faith of their fathers.
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